A strange sort of guilt

We are normally told to leave the things we can’t handle on God. Or, when something happens that isn’t in your plan or as expected, we say that maybe this is how God wants it.

I am starting to believe that life surely is destined in many ways so it is

He who really is in-charge, but when things go wrong and I feel a strange sort of guilt. as if telling me that it got wrong because it was your fault and not that God wanted it this way.

I was thinking on these lines and wondering if you would have anything to say on it.

Is it that he is really in charge and we only think that we are in charge and like The Oracle tells Neo – We didn’t come here to make the choice, We’ve already made it We’re here to try to understand *why* we made it.